Babysitters

Ranting post- please beware.
I have had plans to go to Birmingham tonight, and stay, because a good friend of mines' boyfriend wanted to have his birthday party up there. He just got a job offer out of state, and I dont know what he is going to do- either move or stay here, so this could be his last outing in Alabama for awhile. My very best friend was going to watch Mere tonight, since Mere and her daughter are best friends, and I totally trust this family. Unfortunately, Friend called this morning with news that she would not be able to watch Mere, and this has left me in the lurch.
I am trying to find someone to watch her, but feel so uncomfortable asking someone to help, especially as this is more of a social thing- but I also really want to go... This is what I have always disliked about living here, away from all my family, so I have no one to ask other than my two standards- who are both otherwise committeed tonight.
Sorry about a rant post, I hate writing them, but need to get my frustration out somewhere.